Did you grow up watching parents wander through each day, miserable with their lives but unwilling to change it? The Invite may or may not be for you, depending on if you care about seeing their possible perspective. This film was a slightly uncomfortable watch full of secondhand embarrassment.
The main couple, Angela and Joe, are stuck in a loveless marriage but trying to keep it together otherwise they'll have to change.
Angela is in short, a perfectionist. She has a degree that's gathering dust. She's a stay-at-home mom to a child that doesn't need a stay-at-home mom anymore. The only thing holding her together is the apartment. She has complete control over the whole home. She's renovated it from top to bottom, picked out the wall paint, found the perfect accent pieces. The home is her new baby. She wants it to be absolutely perfect. The whole apartment looks like it's trying to sell you something. She won't let it feel lived in because then it won't be picture perfect.
Joe's biggest crime is that he is far too passive. It's clear he doesn't contribute to the home, even failing to form an opinion on paint when Angela truly asks for it. He just passes through the days; he lets his passion for music flitter out. Joe isn't even involved in the finances despite being the only one with a job at their one income home. He lets Angela handle it all but at least has enough sense to try and ask about expensive pieces that appear in their home simply because company is coming. He doesn't actively listen to Angela and her interests, but he doesn't bother engaging in his own interests either.
Together they form a loveless marriage that is held together by their kid. One thing I'm grateful for is that their kid, Maggie, never makes an appearance. She is referred to by name but never shown on screen. They script is well written enough to still have her be an impactful character without physically being present.
Pina and Hawk, the foil characters, are the polar opposite of Joe and Angela. They are deeply in love with each other and open to change. They don't care for perfectionism, instead just focusing on being happy. They pull each other into their world while still being able to have an identity outside of one another. They have an active social life and try to encourage others to have one as well. They actively listen to both each other plus Joe and Angela. They don't hide their thoughts or emotions behind a wall to try to maintain peace. They share it in order to help overcome the issues. Honesty is something they both deeply value. Hawk even makes a point to express how much he appreciates Joe for not hiding his feelings very well because he enjoys the honesty. Pina and Hawk care about having a positive impact on the people around them, but they also put in the work to do that without trying to be something they aren't.
This tiny cast makes an impactful film. Complete with incredible performances, a killer script, and wonderful music composition, this film is a must watch if you're a fan of drama. The ending leaves something to be desired, but it's impossible to change your whole life in one night so it is certainly a realistic ending that forces you to determine your own future for the characters.
If you're stuck in a marriage with someone you don't love, my advice. Don't stay together for the kid(s). They know, and they hate it.
-Lucy


